tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2335519961763246760.post2999927784681566055..comments2018-07-15T23:23:02.752-07:00Comments on Order of Protection Survivor: The Signs You're Dating a Sociopath, Courtesy of Lovefraud.comKristinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00979431406238988214noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2335519961763246760.post-23631409360160823502011-02-26T21:07:22.006-08:002011-02-26T21:07:22.006-08:00He sure sounds like a sociopath to me!! And remem...He sure sounds like a sociopath to me!! And remember that in the early part of relationship, people tend to be on their best behavior. Gradually, with time, a sociopath will crack and the facade will fall apart. So even though he hasn't showed his Jeckyll and Hyde personality to you quite yet, the fact that it's exhibiting a little at this point is very scary because it's most likely just under the surface ready to emerge. There are so many red flags here that it's scary.<br /><br />If there's a slight indication that he might possibly be a sociopath, which it sounds like there is....you need to turn and RUN. End it. A relationship, especially a new one, should feel good. Since you aren't sure he's a sociopath (and yet you've listed some major red flags here), why are you risking staying with him? The risk is sooo not worth it!!<br /><br />I'm concerned for you and interested to know what happens.....<br /><br />Thanks for stopping by my blog and sharing your experience! I know it will help other women who read your comment.<br /><br />Big hug,<br />KristinKristinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00979431406238988214noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2335519961763246760.post-46558034120883098872011-02-25T21:41:36.333-08:002011-02-25T21:41:36.333-08:001. Charisma and charm.
He's a bit shy actuall...1. Charisma and charm. <br />He's a bit shy actually. But he is also good at talking and joking around when alone with me. <br /><br /><br />2. Enormous ego. <br /><br />Also rather shy, but he did manage to tell me that he belongs to Mensa and has a high IQ. He did manage to tell me of lofty plans to have his own business and make a million. Kind of pie in the sky talk.<br /><br /><br />3. Overly attentive. <br /><br /><br />YEP YEP YEP many many texts, wants to know what I do during the day, one night when I dropped a call and didn't text a while asked "where did you go" seemed to be annoyed that I dropped out of range for a couple of hours.<br /><br />4. Jekyll and Hyde personality. <br /><br />Never toward ME yet. But I saw the flip as he felt slighted by someone's comment and as waiters in restaurants ignored him. He took it personally and got very grim and sullen. Very unpleasant and persistent mood. Made me feel actually alarmed and scared.<br /><br />5. Blame others. <br />Not yet. Except in talking about three ex wives. It's kind of all their fault. I wish I could talk to them.<br /><br /><br />6. Lies and gaps in the story. <br />7. Intense eye contact. <br />8. Move fast. <br /><br />YES!!!!<br /><br />Wants me to meet his parents.<br />Said he was in love with me.<br />Said he doesn't want anyone else to touch me!<br />Mentioned in passing, this would be his commute to work from MY HOUSE. We live 2 hrs apart. He is hinting he'd want to live with me and drive to work from my house. I made no comment. He said it again on the drive. Very weird.<br />9. Pity play. <br />He wants to fix his anger problem he says but hopes I will UNDRSTAND him. That is a pity thing.<br /><br />10. Sexual magnetism. <br />I've never felt this in my marriage. That's why I am an easy target.<br />Sex was unbelievable. He got to me emotionally bec of it. <br />Ive never felt so desired or loved with my husband...and I constantly want sex with him, and way too soon. And I believed it was LOVE making rather than sex, and he called it that.<br /><br />Now I feel that maybe I was even just used for sex? I don't know. He said he was in love with me before we were intimate, but we did get intimate very soon. Ironically he couldn't perfrom the first tiem he was so nervous but it was totally fine later.<br /><br />I don't know what to do.<br /><br />I think he is a sociopath, but I 'm not sure.bravewarriornoreply@blogger.com